What is a girl to do when she has a major crush on her stepdad? How long am I supposed to wait to be able to tell him how I feel? I love my step-mom but I love my step-dad too. When I think of my step-dad I feel a different love for him the way I feel about my step-mom. I feel different sensations in my body. I get moist in my panties and have a hunger to feel his manhood in my hands.