I’m not sure this is something you want to hear from your step daughter, but you asked why I am crying. The matter is I am attracted to married men. I’m actually in or was sort of in a relationship with one. He’s just broke up with me which is why I am crying. You absolutely can’t tell step-mom about this. You’re my step dad so it doesn’t make it as weird to talk about. Ever since I can remember I’ve been attracted to older men, but they also have to be married.